I'm posting this on several online forums because the message needs to be spread.  I ain't trying to steal anyone's thunder but I hate having to say this every freakin' year!  I got more "never forget" messages than I got "Happy Birthday" and that's just not right!  Don't get me wrong.  What happened was tragic but what's worse is that many people are being forgotten because such events have taken priority over their special day.  So I say let's celebrate the living BEFORE we show our respects to the dead!